Answered the question on the paradigms on the sibling comment. How you find it is much easier - education and books. Nearly every major paradigm was written and extensively defended in a book.
Many still are just from the society we were born in - we are raised to get good grades, find a good job, make decent money. But books are the way to find your paradigms otherwise.
Many still are just from the society we were born in - we are raised to get good grades, find a good job, make decent money. But books are the way to find your paradigms otherwise.